Here are three things I am currently doing in order to fill my cup. Enjoying a more fulfilling single life can begin with these three simple practices.
- Meditate: Enjoy your alone and quiet time. It allows you to connect with yourself and your spirituality. Whether you believe in God or are agnostic, a few minutes of quiet time is a great daily practice that allows you to get in touch with yourself. It's the perfect time to reflect on the day, what you enjoyed and didn't, and how to make the next day better, continually in a state of life improvement.
- Experiment with your physical appearance. Especially if you have natural hair or a hairstyle that goes against the norm and is an expression of your inner self – Learn what works for you. It's easy to lose your sense of self in the effort to make a man happy if you don't know what works for you. Having a strong sense of your personal style allows you to know what you stand for or in what areas you are willing to compromise. For example, if he can't accept your natural hair, he may not be able to accept you if you won't go back to having a specific hairstyle.
Follow your dreams! You have nothing and nobody to hold you back. You probably have a few lame excuses but hey, this is the best time to take risks. There is no family to suffer if your efforts fail and you'll always be able to say you tried. So whether it is to travel the world or start your own business, do it now before it's too late.
Start enjoying a more fulfilling single life today.
I don't think a lot of people really take the time to just stop and breathe now days. I agree that we really should just enjoy being where ever we are in life.
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I agree with Lady J. I'm young, but I enjoy being single because each and every day I'm learning something new about myself.
ReplyDeletei agree with lady j and dasia. furthermore, i think people are so quick to want to be in a relationship...esp when they do not know themselves which has a direct correlation of them not knowing what they want out of life. i, too, am single, and its such a fun and amazing experience. i love how i have the time ans space to get to KNOW ME so that I can learn to understand what it means to be the most successful ME when given the freedom of space (physical and otherwise). i do believe every man would appreciate that their mate is bringing the best (ie 100%) to the table when we have learned to successfully be ourselves when we are single.
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