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Ms. Cooper-Sykes went on to attempt to correct/rewrite her previous rule.
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Saying "NO" to sex for a long period of time (everyone has their definition of what is long) usually suggests that either one partner is experiencing stress/difficulty or that the relationship is somehow damaged. What we need to do is not tell people to just move on or merely have empty sex. That will not help the situation.
After one realizes (male or female) that they no longer desire sex or intimacy with their partner, they must seriously consider the cause. Whether or not you can figure out the cause on your own, the next move is to seek assistance from a professional counsellor on how to deal with the lack of intimacy . This may be done with or even without the partner. Point is - don't give up on your marriage so easily. Marriage takes work so...
If you find yourself saying "NO" too often, get to working and work things out.
Its a shame that she doesn't even know or try to know her own worth. Have sex b e c a u s e he wants to? Where's life in that? No one in flesh should ever dictate what you do with your body. Its a gift. Then....where are her statistics coming from? Men 19...and women 10? That's everybody she tallied? I think of sex just as much as my husband. If ANYONE wants to give it up than they should but never as an attempt to keep some d@mn body. She sounds like someone lost and unhappy with her worth, pitiful.
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